Every child is different. For various reasons, children are nervous and behave differently in different situations. There is no one miraculous way to make the child calm down.
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There are a few\ techniques that can be applied when your child is upset or angry. Some ways methods are successful, others less effective and some will not make an impression at all on your child. But you have to give yourself a chance to control your child’s anger and his growing frustration. First of all, the most important for a parent is to remain calm. When parent is upset it will only strengthen the child’s anger. Needless to say, parent should remain quiet speak in a low tone because it is so that the child could hear what his parent says. The mild tone of voice says to a child that mom or dad is overwhelmed and their attitude should help balancing the child. Never use physical punishment.
The child cannot control their emotions, so hitting him even slightly will not change his behavior or even cause a wave of anger. Unfortunately, a reasonable explanation of the situation to a child in this case, will not help because children at emotional situations just do not think. If your child throws up in anger or kicks with his legs, you should move him to a place where he does not hurt himself or anyone else or you can just hold him. Every parent should show understanding and compassion to a child but he cannot relent and if a baby wants something she or he cannot get it. When your child is alreadycalm, do not go back to the subject, you should even say a child that you are proud that he managed great with his emotions.
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